keeping a secret

Since we have received the permission and our visa's we are selling everything and trying to keep our secret on the low profile is very hard I'm so excited and happy and I want to tell everyone, I wouldn't mind telling the world about our process to going to Saudi Arabia I don't want it to sound bad but once people know that you have gotten the approval or visa's then you get flooded with requests to help them and really its not that easy.

anyone that has gone through the marriage permission process will tell you it can take up to 6 months to maybe a year maybe longer depending what country you are from yes sadly but depending on what country your from it can take longer or become more difficult, reason for this may depend on the problems they have in the country from certain countries....

so to the people that get to read my blog after I share it to the world please do not take it to heart when I did not tell you  I only told a few people that are close to me that I know I can really trust please don't understand that " I can really trust" because the people I told are the ones that know me personally and not from being behind the computer screen and secondly there are a lot of envious people that would be happy to give the evil eye and hope something bad.

so these are some of the reasons why I have not gone out and broadcast my marriage approval from Saudi and our Visa's to go there because the next process is to apply for my residency insha'allah that goes smoothly and as easily as the Visa's did so my message to you is to try and to be patient like the rest of us and yes normally for the process to go faster for your marriage permission you have to have someone on the inside that works with the government to follow your papers alhumdullilah we had some family and friends that where able to help us...

Insha'allah if you need help or need any advice I am more then happy there are many people like me that have and are still waiting for the marriage approval but just keep your faith in Allah and try to be patient insha'allah and everything will work out for you...